Last Wednesday I was standing in Piccadily Circus at midnight with hoards of people around me. The bars/coffee shops & restaurants were all open and buzzing. The pavements were full of people moving with purpose….
Now I live in Cumbria where you struggle to find a restaurant open after 8pm.
So I began reflecting on how different the world of London is to Carlisle.
So here’s what I love about Cumbria…..
- No background noise of M25, A3, A406, A1 etc etc
- Walking around without an aeroplane droning overhead
- The views from my village of the back of Skiddaw, or Criffel in Scotland
- The gentler pace of life
- The way Cumbrians laugh at anything that happens further south than Kendal
- Carlisle Utd… the only team to support within 50 miles
- The fact that Cumbrians don’t care what happens in London
- Being in the Fells in 20 mins
- Jennings Brewery
Here’s what I love about London
- Progressive culture
- The vast number of people
- Life after 8pm
- The culture of optimism
- Foyles Bookshop
So where would I really like to live…..
Tues/Wed/Thurs – London
Fri – Mon – Cumbria
so why can’t us Brits run B&B’s ( bed & breakfasts) properly
Yep sorry but this is a rant…..
I stayed in a B&B last night in Bath, great city but what a rubbish B&B. The website made the place look great, but talk about over promise and under deliver! The room was tiny, the shower nonexistent, the walls paper-thin, the owner preferred not to take credit cards… the list of disappointments goes on and on.
I stay in a lot of hotels with work, not expensive ones, the regular budget chains, so not luxurious, but consistant, clean and good for business travellers. So when I had to go to Bath on a last minute visit, I couldn’t get into one of these hotels, so I booked for the same sort of price, a B&B. It was like going back 20 years, I half expected Basil Fawlty to walk out…( OK that was a hotel but you can see where I’m going).
So why can’t we do excellence as standard. When I travel to the US, they have a completely different view. Their start point is excellence as standard (which more often than not they are) rather than making you feel like you’ve an unwanted interruption .
Sorry rant over…am home now. with family who do make me feel wanted.
My 2nd good faith experience last week was watching a DVD from the creator of the Nooma DVDs Rob Bell. It was called The Gods aren’t angry. It’s 90 minute sermon/monologue about humanity discovering that they instinctively live their lives in tune with the rhythm of nature, the sun, the moon, the seasons, and they soon deify these outside influences. When these influences don’t deliver their promises, the rain doesn’t come, the hoped for pregancy doesn’t arrive, then humanity looks for a way of appeasing their particular God. This often ends up by offering a sacrifice to get your God to do the things that you want him or her to do. This practice has led to some of the world’s worst atrocities.
Rob Bell then talks through the story of Abraham and his son Isaac, in which the meaning of Yahweh saying to Abraham, stop, do not sacrifice your son, has profound implications for those of us who profess to have faith. It means that this God doesn;t operate in the same way as the Gods we’ve created. Bell goes on to talk about the sacrifice Jesus made for us, and teh eway that reshapes our faith and reframes our lives.
Then it typically Bell fashion he relates that to how we should live out our faith with honesty, passion and committment.
I’ll be honest , I watched this on a train home from London, and cried. It took me back to the first time in made a Christian step of faith.
I made me realise why I do what I do…thank you God
When I moved to Cumbria nearly 7 years, I sort of knew that finding a church that I could find a home in would be challenging…and boy was I right! I spent a few years between 2 charismatic churches, that I thought were shallow and middle class social clubs , OK, the problem is more likely to be me and my attitude rather than these churches. So by a completely unplanned route I found myself at Carlisle Cathedral, which gives me the sanctuary that I’m looking for.
Also with my job with this lot, I get involved with all expressions of church, the weird, the wonderful and the wacky! This can make me pretty cynical about modern church life, but 2 experiences last week really renewed my faith in today’s church.
Firstly I went to a preview to the latest DVD release from Hillsong London called Hail to the King. Now it’s really easy to get very cynical about folk like this, they are very slick, spend lots of dosh on expensive marketing, and their teaching is often challenged by the traditional church. I sat through the preview and was impressed by the production quality and the music, and had a good evening. They gave us a goodie bag with some of the church literature in it which I read on the tube and in my hotel that night. What really amazed me are the values these guys have, the work they are doing, and their heart for the poor.
They connect with thousands of people each Sunday, have established hubs around London. They articulate clearly that, yes, they spend money on slick advertising, but this is the one way that a highly visual, contemporary society will listen, and seeing the response they get, I’m gonna say….keep it up guys, you are really walking the talk!
They are capital city church, and feel like it, they connect with a vibrant buzzingcentral London!
My second experience I’ll leave for my next post.
I seem to be posting annually! Not good for a blog, so one of my committments whilst on holiday it to really engage with blogging. I started journalling this summer, which is a truly releasing experience, however most of what I wrote is very personal, and isn’t the sort of material that should or will ever be posted online. So I’m going to concentrate on faith, culture, retail and dip into my hobbies of bass playing, books, medieval history, coffee and cathedrals as I choose.
Understanding that writing helps clarify my thinking, this will be good for me.
I’ve had a great break this summer, a wonderful week in Tuscany with friends, my brother got married this weekend, and back to work tomorrow, which I’m kind of looking forward to.
I read a number of great books on holiday, an advance proof of Everything must change by Brian Mclaren. An amazing read of how the kingdom of God should impact our world, and Banker to the Poor by Mohamed Yunus, the story of the Grameen Bank, whose micro banking is changing the lives of millions of the poorest people in the world. Something I find myself getting more and more drawn to.
Why is it that that too many churches don’t see this as important.
The church we attend as a family Kings Church Carlisle is a good place, but is so inward looking, this stuff is irrelevant to them.
Anyway the cathedral term starts soon, my son is a chorister, and I love the tranquilty, peace and tradition, it’s my spiritual oasis! Even if I know that doesn’t connect with real people in a way that is meaningful.
off on the merry-go-round we go again…..
Well after a year of no action..I’ve re-visited my blog and yep…no-one’s read it, which is great it means I can post to my hearts content about all the stuff which is important to me..faith, family, culture, books, coffee, music, bass….etc etc….and I can chat away to no-one…lovely!
Well I thought i’d join the world of blogging, very late I know, but hey I had my 41st birthday last week so I’m allowed to be behind everyone else. I’m also aware that I’m probably writing this only for myself, but I really Ok with that, it’ll do me good to realise I’ve a very small voice in a large world………..i wonder if i’ll post again?